::walks into blog waving white flag::
Alright, alright already dammit I surrender!!!!! I have finally fallen into this sticky, tangled web that is the media circus of Nadya “OctoMom” Suleman. I promised myself I would NOT blog about it but after watching the end of Dr. Phil’s interview with her tonight, I MUST sound off. Warning: this post contains some very heavy profanity so put the kids to bed, its about to get REAL… and it goes a little somethin like this…
Apparently the hospital will not release the children into her care until she can provide a stable living environment for them which she is very obviously incapable of doing. Albeit I am not a supporter of foster care, this situation is a HUGE exception! You see, where I come from, a mother’s job is to provide love, TLC, a stable home, COMMON DAMNED SENSE, education and among all else to be a role model to the best of their ability. Not to just give hugs, kisses & goo-goo ga-ga baby-talk in front of some media cameras. I can’t BELIEVE some of y’all say she’s good Mom just because she coochie-coo’s her kids’ cheeks!!! This woman obviously does not possess the common sense of an empty, stale ice cream cone but has enough sense to know that she should have a spokesperson, a PR person FOR HERSELF and a nifty little professionally designed website with pay-pal links for donations (but no Dad for the kids, regardless of a man who is pleading to be such). I couldn’t put this any simpler than this: there are MILLIONS of single mothers in the world including myself who need help and although I don’t need a quarter of the amount this broad does, do you see any “Donate to Queen’s Kids” buttons on ANY of my pages??? HELLTOTHENO!!!!! I cook, bake, clean, do silly dances, get stuck in tiny ass playground jungle gyms, throw sleepovers, birthday parties, attend PTA meetings, school programs, conferences, bake goodies for classes, have family nights out, check homework, home-educate, do science projects, my side hustles & more then STILL get up the next morning and go to my nine to five all bright-eyed and bushy-tailed in 4-inch pumps with time-card in hand and my GOOD MERRNTING smile in full effect!! ::Beyonce voice:: “All my single MOTHERS put ya hands UP! ::Beyonce voice:: WHOOP-WHOOP!!! Sorry, I zoned out for a minute there… ahem………………. But this chick has the nerve to get on cameras and portray this eloquent “dedicated mother” role but doesn’t even have the decency to dig within herself to find a talent to provide a damned product for consumers to purchase and why?? Because she just wants some COT-damned donations!! Even if someone does give her a home there are still taxes and utilities that must be paid, cleaning that must be done & SO MUCH MORE and paparazzi’s cameras have shown us that cleaning is NOT Ms. Nadya’s thang! You donate a house to her if you want to and its guaranteed to be TRASHED if don’t you pay for a cleaning service to stop by daily! Who’s gonna pick up THAT bill?? Talkin bout she don’t get no help from the government she don’t even appreciate it! Do you know how LOOOOOOOOONG I been tryin to get some food stamps but keep gettin turned down?!!
Reality is she cannot provide a roof over their heads nor does she have the mentality to raise 14 kids and all the donations in the WORLD won’t change the fact that if these children are in her care, they will NOT be provided for accordingly!! Just because she carried them DOES NOT mean she deserves the very sought-after and honorable title of MOTHER. Her priorities are all screwed up and I’ll be damned if America is not pitying for “oh poor little crazy ass Octomom” while I’ve personally witnessed many of my own people’s children get snatched away just on the strength of child services coming to the crib and seeing a roach or two! Seriously, this chick was going to get a manicure in a car with old ass banana peels and cereal bowls on the floor in the backseat!! That $10-$20 spent on a manicure would have been better spent at a damned Bubble Bee car detail shop getting her car cleaned! Hell, you can take 50 cents and go to the Circle K and vacuum your car out in HALF the time it takes to get your nails cut down but she claims it was done “so she could hold her babies”. BULLSHIT… get a nail clipper, hook it on your key chain and ride out like we do in my hood! First step in parenting: PRIORITIZE! Then she’s sooooo upset and “woe-is-me” with the public because everyone is “coming down on her” while she cries victim but continues to stick her foot in her mouth in every interview and every single public appearance! She made her bed, now she must lie in it, just like ALL OF US SINGLE MOTHERS and if she truly wants what’s best for her children (the way she CLAIMS) she would look within herself and realize what they need most in their lives is PARENTING, STABILITY, ATTENTION and AN EXAMPLE, not some damned socks from Macys!! You want help Nadya?? Seek counseling! You want money Nadya?? Ask the public for some work at home opportunities and internet services instead of this fake ass prideful sneak-pleading you keep doing!! You have in-home help right now and instead of trying to WORK for a few, you’re playing hide and go seek with cameras. You have a “back injury” that keeps you from working but you can carry EIGHT CHILDREN?! Get the fuck out Nadya, all of us are NOT falling for your bullshittery!! And to top it all off Kaiser Permanente Inc refuses to provide or pay for treatment of autistic children but they do cover her InVitro fertilization which often leads to risky preterm births and other complications INCLUDING AUTISM. Oh, the IRONY!!
In closing, I am very bothered by this not only as a WOMAN but as a SINGLE MOTHER myself who made the heart-wrenching decision to abort a third child at a very young age because I KNEW it would take away some of the already scarce food from the mouths of the ones I already had at that time and I have to deal with that memory EVERY DAY! I’m sure many of you won’t agree with that and its your business but to each his own and this ain’t about me, its about 14 kids who will have to deal with paparazzi swarming around them as they ride their bikes, play hopskotch in the front yard and try to enjoy the simplicites of being a child. All this drama into their lives NOT because their mother is a legendary Oscar-winning actress or record-breaking activist but because she’s the In-Vitro obsessed OctoMom who wanted to fill the void of a “lonely childhood”. Please America, lets see to it that we exercise the appropriate measures and take action to place custody of these children in the care of women who would give anything to be called Mom and provide what children truly need. And that’s all that I can say.